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About this meeting
Learning to Love Ourselves, known within the fellowship as the LAVA meeting, runs online every Sunday at 7pm, UK and Ireland time, for an hour and a half. It is a Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous meeting with self-worth and self-compassion at its centre, alongside the wider work of recovering from patterns of sex and love addiction. The longer Sunday evening slot allows more time than a standard hour for members to share in depth. It is an open meeting, so anyone can attend, including people who are simply curious about SLAA or supporting a partner or friend in the programme. Joining details are kept on Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous's own meeting page.
Common questions
Do I need to be a member to attend?
This is an open Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous meeting, so anyone can attend, including people supporting someone else in the programme. SLAA's own membership requirement is a desire to stop living out a pattern of sex and love addiction.
How much does it cost to attend?
It's completely free, and there's no need to book or register, just go along at the meeting time. Since this is an online meeting, joining details are kept on Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous's own meeting page rather than published here.
Do I need to have my camera on?
There's nothing in the meeting details to say camera use is required, and newcomers can usually keep it off and just listen for a first visit if that feels more comfortable.
Attending online
This meeting takes place online. The joining details are published on Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous’s own page — always check there shortly before the meeting for the current link.
Get the joining detailsAll times UK & Ireland. We never publish meeting links or passcodes — the fellowship’s own page always has the current details.
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